Three Yoga Poses to Calm the Nervous System

These 3 poses — Child’s Pose, Legs Up the Wall Pose, and Crocodile Pose are excellent ways to calm the nervous system. Child’s Pose gently stretches the body and promotes mindfulness, Legs Up the Wall helps boost circulation and ease stress, and Crocodile Pose encourages full-body relaxation and emotional release. They invite deep breathing and activate the parasympathetic nervous system, effortlessly melting away tension and anxiety. Together, they offer a simple yet powerful way to reconnect with yourself.

Ready to experience their calming benefits?

Below is the step-by-step guide on how to practice Child’s Pose, Legs Up the Wall Pose, and Crocodile Pose.

Child’s Pose (Balasana)

1. Begin on your hands and knees in a tabletop position.
2. Spread your knees wide apart while keeping your big toes touching.
3. Sit your hips back toward your heels. If needed, use a cushion for support.
4. Exhale and lower your torso between your thighs, resting your forehead on the mat.
5. Stretch your arms in front or let them rest alongside your body, palms up.
6. Close your eyes, relax your jaw, and take deep breaths, sinking deeper into the pose.
7. Stay for 30 seconds to a few minutes, focusing on your breath.
8. Walk your hands back and lift your torso to return to a seated or tabletop position.

 

Legs Up the Wall Pose (Viparita Karani)

1. Sit next to a wall, with one side of your body against it.
2. Gently lower your back to the ground while swinging your legs up the wall.
3. Your hips should be as close to the wall as comfortable; you can use a folded blanket under your hips for support.
4. Keep your legs straight and relaxed against the wall, with your arms resting at your sides or overhead.
5. Close your eyes and breathe deeply, allowing your body to relax into the pose.
6. Stay for 5 to 10 minutes, focusing on your breath and letting go of tension.
7 .Bend your knees and roll to one side before slowly coming back up to a seated position.

 

Crocodile Pose (Makarasana)

1. Start by lying face down on your yoga mat.
2. Keep your legs extended straight back, with your feet hip-width apart and toes pointing outwards.
3. Bend your elbows and place your forearms on the mat, creating a cushion for your head. Your palms can touch or rest side by side.
4. Rest your forehead on your arms, allowing your neck and spine to relax.
5. Close your eyes and take slow, deep breaths, focusing on relaxing your entire body.
6. Stay in this position for 5 to 15 minutes, letting tension melt away.
7. Gently lift your head, lower your arms, and roll onto your side before slowly rising to a seated position.

 

30 Ways to Slow Down This Fall

As autumn arrives and the pace of life naturally slows, it’s the perfect time to embrace the season’s new energy. The crisp air, changing leaves, and shorter days invite us to step back and savor the little things. In this post, I’m sharing 30 simple ways to slow down for fall, helping you enjoy the season with more mindfulness and ease. Whether it’s through small rituals or seasonal activities, these tips will help you embrace the beauty and peace that autumn brings.

Cozy Up at Home

1. Read a book under a warm, fluffy blanket – perfect for a quiet, chilly evening.
2. Take a warm bubble bath – unwind with some self-care.
3. Embrace the art of slow cooking – put on some music, and enjoy the process.
4. Stock up on fall-spiced teas – pumpkin spice, chai, cinnamon, and apple.
5. Watch Hocus Pocus (1993) – the perfect Halloween classic to get into the spooky spirit!
6. Stock up on new warm, fuzzy socks.

 

Creative Fall Fun

7. Tap into your creative side – try knitting or paint-by-number kits.
8. Visit a costume store – browse through costumes and decorations for some Halloween fun!
9. Start a gratitude jar – place it in a visible spot and fill it with notes of gratitude throughout the season.


Outdoor Adventures

10. Take a walk in nature – immerse yourself in the colors, smells and sounds of autumn.
11. Visit a local farmer’s market – gather fresh fall harvest goodies.
12. Watch a full moon rise – a peaceful and beautiful way to connect with the season.
13. Take a blanket to a park – lay down and watch the leaves dance in the sunlight.



Seasonal Rituals

14. Gather fall/winter recipes – soups, stews, and casseroles for those chilly nights.
15. Make a homemade pumpkin spice latte – a cozy fall classic you can whip up at home.
16. Reflect on spring and summer – set intentions for fall based on what you’ve learned this year.
17. Make a list of fall and winter activities for your family.


Spread Kindness

18. Donate sweaters, coats, and winter outerwear – help those who need warmth this season.
19. Drop off baked goods for a neighbor or friend – a simple way to brighten someone’s day.
20. Pick up the phone and call a friend or family member – skip the text or email, and leave a heartfelt message if they don’t answer.

Mindful Moments

21. Start a gratitude journal – reflect on the things you’re thankful for each day.
22. Make a list of ten things you love about your life right now – it’s a great way to boost positivity.
23. Declutter your living space – clear out what no longer serves you.
24. Engage in gentle exercise – try yoga, tai chi or a peaceful nature walk.
25. Take advantage of the extra morning hour when the clocks turn back – use this time for something just for you.


Connect with Nature

26. Fill your bird feeders – keep the birds around with seeds.
27. Open your windows to let in the cool, crisp air each day.



Simple Pleasures

28. Enjoy warm beverages – take time to savor each sip.
29. Find a cozy spot and listen to your favorite artist or band – do nothing else, just listen.
30. Host family or friend board game or puzzle nights – enjoy some screen-free bonding time.

Top 5 tips for Well-Being

Are you going through a rough time, feeling out of whack, or just want some tools to feel better in general?

Check out my TOP 5 TIPS FOR WELL-BEING…

BE IN NATURE

“In every walk with nature one receives far more than he seeks.” – John Muir

Being in nature is an efficient healing source and a quick way to shift your mood. Go barefoot in your backyard and feel the grass under your feet. Walk in your local park and look up at the trees. Visit a garden and literally smell the roses. Notice the colors, aromas, and diversity of nature.

On my daily walks, I’m reminded of the abundance of the universe, and it lifts my spirits and clears my mind.

SHARE HOW YOU FEEL

“Connection is why we’re here; it is what gives purpose and meaning to our lives.”- Brene Brown

This can be a hard one for many people who try to appear to “have it together all the time”. I’m going to let you in on a secret….NOBODY DOES! I used to be a master of hiding how I felt and it was working with horses that taught me to share my authentic self.

Keeping your true feelings buried causes you to feel alone which can lead to depression. Call a friend, family member (my sister is my go-to), or visit an Equine Coach or therapist. When you share how you feel with a trusted confidante (person or animal), you instantly feel lighter, more connected, and not so alone.

JOURNAL

“What a comfort is this journal. I tell myself to myself and throw the burden on my book and feel relieved.” – Anne Lister

Writing down your thoughts and feelings is a healthy outlet for them to be released. It can give you a new perspective, and it’s a powerful way to reflect on what is and isn’t working in your life.

My favorite journaling practice is Julia Cameron’s “Morning Pages” exercise of writing three pages each morning. I love stream-of-consicousness journaling of downloading all my thoughts and feelings through the pen.

MOVE YOUR BODY

“Movement is a medicine for creating change in a person’s physical, emotional, and mental states.” – Carol Welch

Crank the music and dance in your kitchen, or go to the gym and sweat it out. Nothing gets you out of your head, and into your body faster than raising your heart rate.

Even when I don’t feel like it, I make it a priority to exercise at least 15 minutes 4 to 5 times a week and I ALWAYS feel better and more energetic afterward.

MEDITATE

“Suffering is due to our disconnection with the inner soul. Meditation is establishing that connection.” – Amit Ray

Take 5 to 15 minutes each day to sit, close your eyes, and observe your breath. It helps relieve anxiety, and connects you to your inner guidance. By meditating regularly, you develop the ability of observing your thoughts instead of your thoughts controlling you.

I love guided meditations because they help keep my mind from wandering all over the place. I highly recommend the Headspace Meditation app for simple 10 minute guided meditations.

 

We ALL feel out of whack at times and by integrating these tools, you can experience more balance and increased well-being.

I’d love to hear from you….what practice or tools do you use to stay balanced and feel better? Share in the comments below.

To your well-being,

Devon

Allowing myself to cry

In my experience, allowing myself to cry is healthy.

“Crying is good for the soul. It means something needs to be released. And if you don’t release the something, it just weighs you down until you can hardly move.” ― Erin Entrada Kelly

In the past 18 hours, I’ve cried 2 separate times – one was a stress cry and one was a gratitude cry.

The stress cry happened in my therapists’ office yesterday as I was sharing/downloading recent challenges that had been building up emotionally and mentally about running my business.

The tears started pouring out as I hit a tender topic and I didn’t hold back. Once I cried and my pain was witnessed with no judgement – only support – I immediately felt a lot lighter afterwards. Like two tons of weight had been lifted off my shoulders and I didn’t even realize how heavy the stress I’d been carrying was until I cried and released it. My mind felt lighter and my emotions had been honored. That’s a stress cry for me.

The second cry happened this morning when I was reading feedback forms that 2 Unbridled clients filled out about their experience in the Living Unbridled Program for alumni. Their words touched my soul, I felt immense gratitude and a literal overflowing of love pouring outward from my heart. The tears came easily and effortlessly and I felt a softening in my body. That’s a gratitude cry for me.

Growing up I thought crying meant being vulnerable and being vulnerable meant being weak so I did everything I could to avoid being perceived as weak. That led me to an eating disorder and a dark path that almost ended my life in my early 20s. It was the healing power of horses that taught me crying is ok, healthy, and necessary as part of the healing and feeling process. It’s also an integral part of being human and experiencing life, contrary to many “societal norms.”

That’s why I created Beyond the Arena, now Unbridled Retreats, 14 years ago – our equine retreats allow people a safe space to cry, release, process, reflect, and be themselves. No judgement, no “fixing” rather an uplifting, guided, supportive environment to allow people to cry, laugh, celebrate, grief, love, release pent up emotions and embrace self-compassion – which is life-changing, and in some cases, life-saving, as it was for me in my own healing journey.

Thanks for reading. Does any of this resonate with you? I’d love to hear from you in the comments below.

With love,
Devon

“The Summer Day” by Mary Oliver

Who made the world?

Who made the swan, and the black bear?

Who made the grasshopper?

This grasshopper, I mean—

the one who has flung herself out of the grass,

the one who is eating sugar out of my hand,

who is moving her jaws back and forth instead of up and down—

who is gazing around with her enormous and complicated eyes.

Now she lifts her pale forearms and thoroughly washes her face.

Now she snaps her wings open, and floats away.

I don’t know exactly what a prayer is.

I do know how to pay attention, how to fall down

into the grass, how to kneel down in the grass,

how to be idle and blessed, how to stroll through the fields,

which is what I have been doing all day.

Tell me, what else should I have done?

Doesn’t everything die at last, and too soon?

Tell me, what is it you plan to do

with your one wild and precious life?

—Mary Oliver